It’s interesting how sex, a profoundly natural human act, is often condemned as taboo. I don’t know about you, but I think it’s worth talking about.
So we have nature. We have humans. Humans are part of nature. And the one thing that every human has in common is how we got here We all got here through this quite natural act of procreation. And yet, is there any topic that throws people off more? That people are willing to think about but not usually talk about? And when you do talk about it, there tends to be a lot of regurgitated philosophies.
A lot of old, outdated ways of looking at it. And so, if you are in a place in your life where you’d like to enjoy this experience that is as human as it gets, if you’d like to enjoy sex more, then here’s some thoughts.
Many people see sex and observe sex as a peak experience, which, no doubt, neurologically, biologically, chemically, energetically, spiritually, in every way that we can experience life, no question, sex is up there.
But as with everything so powerful, many people use sex as an escape. They use sex as a way of manipulating or of controlling. They use sex as a way of getting their needs met that aren’t being met in other areas of their life. And so, instead of looking at sex as an escape or looking at sex as a peak, once in a while, sort of blissful experience, what if every part of your life was operating at a higher level?
What if every area of your life, your physical health and energy, your sense of fulfillment, your experience of rich, meaningful social connections, your financial life, what if all of those areas of your life were operating at a peak? Would that then change who you are and how you’re showing up to this experience called making love?
Instead of seeing lovemaking as an occasional or more special experience, what if your entire life was on par with that level of intensity, that level of energy, that level of beauty and joy, that level of connection? So that instead of seeing this sexual act as this rare occasion, what if your senses, your soul, your experience of sensuality and being alive, what if that was a normal day-to-day experience? What if you naturally experienced more of life through all of your senses so that when you did come to this experience of lovemaking, you were bringing more of you into that experience? The more that we think about and give positive energy to any area of our life, the better it gets.
So why not consider treating all of your life as a sensual experience, treating all of your life as an experience worthy of your full attention? I think you may find that that particular part of life, that particular moment of connection, that moment of creating and experiencing intimacy with another person starts to elevate even more. Instead of treating sex as a different part of life, what if your entire life elevated to a new level of sensuality, a new level of connection, a new level of co-creation?
There’s only one way to find out. Test it for yourself and judge by results.